I'l check them out when I am feeling up to it Happy. Thanks, there does seem to be some parallels with this and addiction.
I did a little bit of reading around NPD abuse, it's heavy going. I mentioned in another thread about your input here Gracie.
This does sort of feel like a breakthrough for me of some sort. Based on what you said I have felt a little of my anger subside.
And a little bit of the confusion. It is quite sad though I must admit. It's good to hear that you are now recovering now at least.
I never though it possible based on the level of misunderstanding. I imagine it has been very frustrating, it has been for me too.
It doesn't look like I will be able to sort this out with her by any means. I suppose its just a matter of acceptance? It's pretty hard.