Yes he has been well refiner... He's been living out of the house and yes we have agreed upon 6 months of solid sobriety before continuing to work on "us". I don't know if that's long enough, but we'll see.
He's been VERY good to the kids and I. His new medication seems to be bringing about some radical changes in thought processing, which is a relief to think it could be more of a chemical imbalance rather than his true nature.... But I'm not holding my breath on that. As Amy, lexi, and dandy have been good to point out-- this could be another honeymoon.... So future tripping is very hard for me...