Lexie, thank you for all you do. I am so glad that those on this site who are going through DV, male and female alike, have you as support. Your knowledge and your work in this field is admirable, I just wanted to throw out there how much I appreciate you!
I completely understand future tripping. It's so very hard not to do, as a means of protecting yourself. I know I just wore myself out. As someone else said, I try to live in the moment while being aware of when the environment changes.
XXX