Thank you for all you inputs, everyone. I should not have bring up my niece, it just came out, and in truth, I feeling total overwhelm by it and by all the advices on it. Is impossible to go into all details of the situation. Trying to help them in past has been utterly futile. I maybe keep try, but I has to get my own self together.
With that, please understand I need break from SR. I maybe lurk in on you, but please not pressure me to check in and such. I will be back when I has something to say. I promise. Moo Mwah.