...we are going to marriage counseling and the 'Main Issue' keeps changing. Somtimes its 'Me not being there for her during pregnancy' then its 'You don't help around the house'. Then its 'You don't respect my parents'. Then 'its you aren't a good father'. And I have to PROVE my love for my family everytime by 'DOING more'. I am getting tired, worn out, and really hurting. And we never talk about her addiction and since she hasn't 'abused' anything in two years, she is cured.