It may very well be the norm for you to be involved particularly if your husband's program is a non 12 step program. CRAFT views sobriety as a team approach. I would ask what is the program or philosophy of this outpatient program, what is expected of you and I would even ask the counselor what his qualifications are. Knowledge is power and you are not merely a passenger on this journey.
The Secular Connections for Friends and Family forum here has a lot of threads on the non 12 step approach. The posters there are also nice. I recommend you pop in and ask them questions as well.