The only thing that would worry me about this- and trust me don't take worries from me, I am learning too- is that the counselor even said hello in the parking lot. I get a lot of comfort from knowing our docs and therapists respect our privacy. Who knows why he was there- and I know I am in the minority with this- but I would seek out a more professional person for my own counseling. What your A decides to do is out of your hands.