Thanks, I have not asked what she did as she was a bit upset by the whole thing and didn't volunteer the information. And yes, it was a third party - sending one of those messages on Facebook that goes into your "Other" box because it's from someone who isn't your friend. My daughter knows the woman who was harassing me, but does not know the sister. My mom does not have my daughter's phone number or new address, but the whole "I'll give you money" thing just stinks to all of us.