Just focus on yourself mate a girl will screw up your minds right now. you will need all the focus you have in you to stay strong and tell off your evil brain (AV =alcoholic /addictive voice) for trying to trick you.
I'm 77 days now have hardly got that AV talking to me anymore but yesterday she was whispering to me how it would be great to edit my photos with a beer like the old days.
Before in the first month I would have gotten very upset and confused and stressed by it. Now I listen to it and just let it go, the foolush voice is getting weaker as my sobriety muscles grow.
I noticed it takes 500% dedication and you HAVE to stay focussed ESPECIALLY in the beginning in the early days when your sobriety muscles are not developed yet to fight back. otherwise you will fail.
Good luck, focus on yourself and your sobriety and let the girl get clise when you're abit stronger
Xo
J