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Old 03-31-2015, 03:37 AM
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jazzfish
Better when never is never
 
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Wisconsin near Twin Cities
Posts: 1,745
Good morning, Marchers. I'm starting to think I need to fix my life not just fill up the time. I still believe that just not drinking is all that is required of sobriety. However, there is still a leftover hole that creates an uncomfortable life. I went back over the advice I was given earlier to see what I am not following and found these four pieces:
  • Tell someone and make yourself accountable.
  • Do not underestimate the changes that you will need to make in your life. It's not just about the alcohol; it's about so much more.
  • Find support. Most people find it very difficult to do alone. Reach out BEFORE you drink.
  • Action is required. Make a plan and then take action on it. Recovery requires consistent work. Don’t expect to simply get sober and then move on in a few months. Be ready to do whatever it takes.

I tried telling my wife, but she doesn't really follow through on the accountability part.

Just some thoughts this morning. I hope everyone is have a good sober day!
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