"Please come..."
My SIL called me again today asking me to please come with my AH and the boys to easter with the family. I declined. I've not cried one tear with the revelation of the 2 women, but when SIL called and asked me twice to come, I couldn't hold back the tears. She knows in her heart I'm done, but is still clinging to hope where I have none, at least not for our marriage.
On another note, when your STBXAH calls for little things that I don't need to be called for, what do you do? Mine keeps finding little things to call me about and its annoying. He called me while I was having dinner at CR this evening. I answered, maybe I shouldn't have, and he asked me something we have already gone over. he knows! I kept it brief and told him I was at CR so he let me go. It's still annoying. I am trying to make sure that when I'm busy I don't rush to answer and call him back when its convenient, I just didn't do that this evening.