Originally Posted by
LexieCat 
I did, the second time (no kids, no joint property, the few debts we had I gladly took as the price of freedom). Easy-peasy. The first time my ex and I agreed on EVERYTHING, we worked it out so his lawyer drafted the agreement (his lawyer was cheaper than mine, and one of his AA friends), my lawyer looked it over and suggested minor changes, and we split the total fees. Never had a hitch with either one.
You are a lot stronger than I am. I can't even say the D word out loud without the water works turning on. My AH can't hear the word without a few tears of his own. But I can't even wax my own eyebrows- I need a neutral willing to say one, two , three- rip for that too.