Originally Posted by
healthyagain 
I feel I did the right thing though, although this was supposed to be my little secret. I did not say, "oh, if you do not stop drinking, I will divorce you." I just wanted him to leave me alone and stop hurting me. And I will divorce him.
Yeah, with his crap it's much more than alcohol abuse. I think if he quit drinking today, he'd still be an abusive AZZ... probably even moreso since he couldn't drink and would take it all out on you 20x!!!