Originally Posted by
FeelingGreat 
Hi Healthy, sounds like you can't do anything right. The sooner you're out of that atmosphere the better because even though what he's throwing at you is BS, it's got to be hard for your health and peace of mind.
Can you separate while all this is going on? Do you have any fears of actual violence now that he knows your intentions?
I think he is one of those guys who takes it out on women when he knows there is nobody around. Everybody is going to be shocked when they find out we are divorcing, because he praises me all the time. And I know exactly why. I am not afraid of physical violence, but now that you say that, after all these mean words, maybe if I did swing at him today, maybe he would swing back. Because abuse gets worse, and who knows. But he is a coward.
My plan is to stay away from him and not initiate any conversations and just deal with attorneys myself. Will keep packing my stuff.