Mrs. Vain, I could have written your post. Except the part about the other woman. I am sure there are and have been, but I have thankfully not been confronted with that...yet. It's like I have asked him to respect my wishes and the PFA and not contact me, but he disregards it and calls. He has been pure nasty to me since Friday. Last night he was yelling at me on the phone and blaming me for all kinds of problems he has and then he called me an idiot. I hung up. And I thought he is right, I absolutely am an idiot for continuing to allow him to treat me that way and for thinking he will ever change. And then this morning he calls and has the audacity to leave me a message saying he wants to try with me and he loves me. WTH!!!! He can ride his roller coaster all by himself!