skwgtb....I hear you. I am just speaking from the point of view that says that the alcoholic often becomes the most "important" person in the family or the relationship.
The central person.
I just didn't want you to forget that you are just as important as him. You need to be seen and heard and treated with respect. You need to know that you matter.
LOL! I realize that I am talking about relationships 101.
Thanks for being patient with my beating on the subject........lol.....
dandylion has now removed herself from the soapbox.
dandylion