I guess it is different for everyone and everyone has a different threshold for pain. I am praying that I have reached mine! I am just always shocked at how nasty he is and how much he blames me for things that he created. He takes no responsibility for any of this. I honestly think his verbal and emotional abuse is far worse than the physical abuse from him. The physical has healed and the scars are much less noticeable than the emotional scars he has left.