Duckygirl, He's and @ss pimple.
You're going to be fine. You're smart, and determined, and talented, so I have little worries that you're going to land on your feet. But, I so want to see you find a job that you love. I adore food, and the thought of someone with your talents not being in the kitchen breaks my heart.
I'm going to keep my fingers crossed, and light a candle, and say a few prayers, and chants, and anything else to get you out of that hell hole and into a better job asap. I may light a few candles and say a few prayers for the wife as well that she stop trying to clean up his messes and move on with her life.