I'm sorry to hear this Katchie! Wow, indeed!!
*sigh*
Well, I did take my maiden name back when my ex and I divorced. He was supposed to have the attorney write that into the decree, but did not. So, I had to go to court to officially have my name changed! I had to appear in court and testify before a judge that I wasn't doing so to avoid debt and so on....I was furious!!! But not surprised at my ex's lack of consideration