what do you think?
Just curious to hear everyone's opinion...Do you think giving verbal support is a form of enabling? I have not provided shelter nor money to my AH or pretty much anything for that matter in a couple of months.Some of his friends and family members have completely cut him off and think I should do the same.They believe communicating with him is enabling him and not allowing him to reach bottom. Although I appreciate their input (not really lol) I have decided not to do that because of our children and because.....well frankly, I believe it does not hurt to give him encouragement from a distance. Just curious to hear some perspectives from here since we have all actually been through, or are in, similar situations. It's easier for outsiders to give advise when they don't have a clue about what really goes on. Thank you!