Originally Posted by
CarmenLove 
So I think I have been very codependent feeling tonight.
I have been feeling worried about my ex. Perhaps as a way to avoid my own feelings?
I'm actually feeling pretty awful. Anxious, lonely and not very loveable right now (although I know this is not true).
Carmen...just because you've left him doesn't mean you've stopped caring about him and what happens to him.
You just can't allow those feelings to hijack your judgment.