I'd be happy if we could mention Craft/Smart without the anti-Craft statements. those are quite frequent, also, along with the fallacy that we just "Love our Loved Ones clean". We ALL know that doesn't happen.
And, I think it's important for people to know that 12 step doesn't work for everyone. It's important to know that not everything heard at those meetings are gospel, and it's ok if you think it's wrong. Or people question their own beliefs, like I started to. I didn't know it was ok to say, this doesn't work for me, because no one else was saying it.
it's like, when you have a baby and you have post partum, but everyone tells you should be happy, and you're not. Something is wrong, but no one is letting you say what it is, and they are all saying you should feel something else. Does that analogy make sense? It does in my head, lol, but that can be a lonely place in there.