Hello need advice and ideas and anything
Hello I'm new here and at a loss my partner is a recovering alcoholic he's just three weeks clean this time has been in rehab twice before but that was in our early days of dating each other I held back through those times and saw once out and clean till the next time he fell off the wagon this time he's begged for my help so I did the full detox with him such I'm sure you all know isn't for the faint hearted . I'm a mam of two lovely children wich are my absolute world but so is my partner we usually live separate he has his place I have mine as I won't allow him near my children or me when he is drinking but since the detox he's stayed with me every day and night now I'm gonna sound so selfish I'm finding it so hard keeping everyone happy him getting to all the appointments and meetings running the house my part time job and the children's needs he wants to be with me 24 _7 does this sound familiar?it's exhausting or maybe I'm used to my own space he is doing so well I'm really proud of him his mind set is so different to other times he has come off drink he knows it's last chance for us I love him so much I honestly do or I guess I wound be going through this I just feel so lost any advice is most welcome or am I going through what any partner of an alcoholic goes through