From what you write you appear a rather intelligent person who doesn't know if there is a problem or not. The common advice is: if you have to ask, you propably have a kind of problem with alcohol.
Can I ask by the way how much has that leaving out all gluteine helped with your state of being and mentality? Never tried that. Been off caffeine for about 6 months and it's been a strange ride in my experience. I can relate to a lot of what you're saying. The truth still remains, alcohol is risky, no matter who uses it.
No-one here is going to turn you off if you want to party. Everyone has the right and freedom to choose for themselves. It is just is the choice wise and according to your wishes.