Im also in the same boat. I knew what my boyfriend was when I met him. I thought maybe since I didnt meet him drunk and we worked together it would be different. WRONG I was so wrong. I am the first girl he hasnt met in a bar, I am also the only one who will not drink with him. Both these things irritate him and now I am ready to say to him, go find one who will. It breaks my heart, but I have to let go.