Its like detoxing yourself. It feels horrible I know! I'm so sorry. But calling him will feel worse
You want to hear from him probably bc he's playing the push me pull me thing and right now he's pushing you away and you want to be 'pulled' back instead.
And You can't clarify what he means.
EVER.
He doesn't know either.
Except that maybe it's seems like a good way to justify his time spent w/someone else.
I got: "we're not compatible"...only a day after I was his "soul mate".
Then some nights out binging, not coming home and a bunch of incriminating texts from women on his phone.
Really.
Whatever you do- don't call.
It will not feel good and you won't get any clarity that's for sure.