I second that Blossom. So sorry you have to go through this. I am betting that it is super hard to watch your mom who you love have such codie behavior.
We nanny cammed my grandma's nursing home just for peace of mind. We were well aware if something did happen we could not use that legally but it did allow us to monitor. It was through a teddy bear that had a camera inside it. Just a thought. Not trying to encourage that, just saying that there are those types of items out there. The good thing is that she will soon be older and able to tell you things that are going on.
Tight hugs to you my friend. XXX