Mom's bf just does stuff like that. It would have been better if he had come and said hi, instead of taking pictures of the back of our heads while we were standing in line.
I know I can't fix it for her, I think just living there and seeing it makes it hard to be around.
She is too young to put into counseling, or so I've been told. She is 3. I told her she can always call me when she is over there if she is scared. Not that he would let her if it were actually something bad going on. I know I'm worrying right now for something that may or may not happen. My dad was abusive to all of his exs and my mom, but never ever laid a hand on me. I'm hoping that with exabf. It just brought up a lot of fears I didn't really know I had yesterday.