Here is a link to the AA Virginia site:
Virginia AA - Area 71 of Alcoholics Anonymous
You can look up local meetings from this site.
I have also drank mouthwash in the past (the minty kind) so I feel your pain.
Here is a link to a website where you can find free or low cost clinics:
www.needymeds.org
I'm sorry for the way you were treated by the doctors and hope you find a way to get help soon! Best of luck to you!