Thanks for being so honest. If I remember right you are very newly married... You sound like you've got a really good head on your shoulders and have your eyes wide open and know what's going on. I'm sure as more time goes on you'll get tired enough of him not contributing and being disrespectful (the audacity of him bringing home the IPAs I mean REALLY!) and you'll have had enough and move on. Or maybe he'll have had enough of himself with no self-respect and decide to get help and want change. Glad you found SR.