Originally Posted by
soberforbaby 
yeah. my wife must know. She has made a few hints I ignore. Cold/flu season & other BS like that I say. I feel just so pathetic to re-promise all the same crap I promised her 15 months ago. I don't know why she wants to be with me. I will see my doctor and fess up. I guess I'll just tell my wife I messed up.
To me, Honesty is the absolute cornerstone of sobriety. Especially honesty with ourselves. Your wife may not believe you or trust you initially, that's very common as we have all lied about our drinking. But action will help you regain your trust. Seeking medical advise and/or counseling ( and following through on the recommendations ) shows others that you are serious. Not drinking in itself shows a committment. Make being sober your #1 priority and you'll be amazed at how far you can go, regardless of what has happened in the past.