[QUOTE=all my ex did was find other enablers, and that they are now experiencing the kinds of insanity that I lived with when I harbored and enabled addiction in my home by choosing to harbor and enable his addiction in theirs. Addiction has a really unfortunate inertia, and anymore I just advise friends and family to get out of its way or prepare to be bowled over.[/QUOTE]
This is a great statement and great advice. I'm sorry things for your ex aren't working out because it seems to still have an affect on you and, of course, DD3. But your perspective is terrific.