Aw thanku and I love the coffee shop idea but my mum has already bought food for tomorrow and it's all arranged. She's been really understanding and already said she understood if I didn't feel I could do it but I feel bad if I don't. I've decided that if a bottles opened and I feel stressed I'll say I think I left the cooker on or something and escape for an hour and go back later. Bit lame but it's one way to avoid it x