Boy, I KNOW what you are feeling! I am at my folks home nursing my dying Mom and my alcoholic sister is downstairs drinking! She has tried to talk with me doing the "we have to get along for Mom's sake" But all I hear is quack,quack, quack! The hospice nurse told her no smoking in the house and she gave him a dirty look! I can't look her in the eye, either! Have to walk away from her all day long, actually, glad she's downstairs now, cuz at supper she was slurring her words and swearing and just being, weel,drunk!