Parent's not on the same page with Adult AD
Background: Alcohol and drug abusing daughter age 25. 90 days combined full time in and out patient rehab then nearly one year weekly group and individual counseling. Relapsed.
I am so sick and tired of this. I cannot ride this roller coaster again. I want her out of our house. My husband will not throw her out. He's not there yet. I am. I can't even stand to be in the same room with her. I'm not trying to play the "mad game" or "guilt game" I sincerely cannot even look at her. I haven't spoken a word to her since I found out she relapsed when she almost burned down our house.
I've done the "we're enabling her to kill herself" speech and he's just not there. So the only option is that I leave and I don't want to leave my husband of 30 years or my house or my dogs.
So we're 3 people in one house constantly in 3 different rooms.