Old 03-13-2015, 03:08 PM
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immri
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Originally Posted by DoubleDragons View Post
The best advice that I got, that luckily I heeded, was to make myself accountable. When I first decided to quit drinking, I even considered "just keeping it to myself", like not even telling my husband. HA! Any time I felt really compelled to drink, especially in the beginning months, I told on myself here and with others in my "real" life. My October 2013 mates strongly suggested that I tell a group of women who I always go on an annual GW with that I had quit drinking before I went on the trip and that was KEY! I know that if I had I just used myself as accountability, I would still be drinking today. (I am almost 18 months sober.)
I really agree with this too, being accountable is soo far from my natural instinct to want to hide everything, but telling friends and family, forming friendships/exchanging numbers in AA and posting the TRUTH here- especially if I'm considering drinking, has really helped me so far.
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