This is SOOO hard for me to remember--I always feel I need an answer and action NOW! But yet, on the occasions where I do remember to wait (or where I am forced to wait, due to my powerlessness), so many times the "problem" resolves itself...
And learning to wait before making a commitment, before answering a question...again, so hard for me to do but it works so much better when I AM able to wait. In time, I sure hope I can learn to trust that this will happen and it gets easier to do.
Just started a book called "The Ecstasy of Surrender" by Judith Orloff. Looking forward to getting into the meat of it.