I'm sensitive, other people put up with their husbands drinking, I'm over the top , I'm over reacting, it's a kiwi nz bloke thing to do like in the culture, it's about other probs in our marriage so that makes me hate the drinking. He's not that bad, don't listen to strangers on the net lol.
Oh, I can honestly tell you I thought every single one of those things (except not the kiwi nz thing but a Latino macho culture thing). Don't let that stop you. If you don't like what you have, you have no obligation to like it. Doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.
