aspen....do you have any boundaries in place? What do you plan to do if he starts drinking, again?
He is going to do what h e is going to do. The question is...what are you going to do?
Alanon can help you as you sort things out on your side of the equasion,
There is a reason that people are telling you these things...especially, if it is coming from others who have been in your same shoes....
dandylion