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Old 03-10-2015, 08:40 AM
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heartcore
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You said it in the next to the last line "I don't want to open my house to her." Listen to your inner knowing. It knows!

A large part of the work of my recovery has been in learning to set boundaries. My sense of being taken advantage of or doing things I don't want to do contributed mightily to the general sense of dis-ease that led me to drink.

Stay safe. Take care of yourself first. She chose to break the rules of the recovery house & lost her place to live; solving her problem (rather than getting bailed out) is her recovery to do...
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