Originally Posted by
TJD912 
I realized I was either going to live like I was living or I had to get out. The next thing I knew it was three years later and I finally decided enough was enough.
Same page sister. Except we were never married. From Day 1 I knew there was something amiss in her. But I did not judge and listened to ALL of the dramas her life had been filled with and said Man I know I can show her things don't have to be like that.
STUPID ME was the one that got played like a flea market fiddle.
Even so, I knew I would NOT want to be married with this train wreck, even if she somehow seemed better. She quit drinking for 2 years. Just when you think...OK....its over, no more nightmare, the relapse takes place. To which she felt she needed to make me the target of that as well. And it was like a complete starting over of the train wreck.
Trust me, your life will be better now.