Originally Posted by
gitzo 
just an update... I am separated. Filed for divorce.
I saw the pattern starting with my daughter. My ex would always bring out the worst in me so I had no moral right to mention drinking. My daughter confronted her mom on the drinking and I saw my ex do the same thing to her.
That was enough for me to face my fears. Now that I am out, I feel I wasted a decade of my life, and wish I would have moved out years ago.
Seeing a great women. Business is getting on track. and I am happy.
Well, we learn and we grow on our own timetable. The bottom line is you are where you are, and that you're happy. Learn from how you handled things, but don't beat yourself up too much.