Originally Posted by
SuzyMarie 
Ask yourself if you really want to spend the rest of your life doing that same thing?? The more you take care of your needs and focus on healing yourself, the less it hurts and you'll see the situation with a new pair of eyes.
That's a really good way to look at it. I know I'm better off, but I'm frustrated, disappointed and hurt that I am in this situation. I just have to keep it in my head that I'm atleast better off than he is.