Pink,
I really think calling a suicide or DV hotline might be a good way to get some help - locally. I think one of the hardest things about recovery is accepting help from someone else. We don't want to be judged. We want to be independent. We don't want others to see us at our lowest.
It is an act of faith to reach out. Since you are so despondent over your family's options, then call a stranger for help. I posted national links just in case you are not precisely in KY.
DV:
The National Domestic Violence Hotline | 24/7 Confidential Support
Suicide:
Lifeline