Hi,
My husband and I are both in recovery. He has 7 years prior to mine. His Sponsor told him to "sit on his hands" and let you wife's recovery be her own. Ken will tell me from time to time how challenging this advice was to follow. I believe it is sound advice.
There is not a single day that recovery, Steps, Meetings, etc is not a part of our conversations. It's a passion we both share....hell it brought us together again!! We have 2 weekend meetings we attend together. And I have my meetings in the day when he's at work. He has evening meetings he attends without me.
All the best to you and your wife,
. Bobbi