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MLD51 Y'all, did anyone experience rumors that weren't true about yourselves? I did. Yes, I did some stupid stuff, but the rumor mill here in my town is evil and according to it, I slept with every guy I even talked to at a bar. One of the reasons my guy friend doesn't want to be with me. He believed all of it at the time. I have to,d him over and over again I didn't do all that stuff - but who is going to believe a drunk? And I did do some of it. He sees it as cheating on him, but I don't get that because we were on and off and he never made it clear to me where we stood. But in any case, he was hurt and feels betrayed. He says he might never trust me again.
I believe you Mld! I think it's one of those things that will just take time. He's watching you right now seeing if it may be possible to believe you in the future. Keeping doing what's right even if he never does quite trust you again ( although I think in time he will trust you again).
Sadly, if there were rumors about me they were probably all true. I slept with every person I could while I was drinking.