Please don't be offended, but as the mother of an AS who has been through hell and back (both of us), I want to know how to walk the fine line between "reminding" him of why he is in this position or focusing on the future in a positive manner.
It's difficult being positive and I don't want to encourage plans that are probably unattainable now, or at least in the near future. I want to be realistic without crushing his spirit. Actually, deep down, I want to scream and rant and remind him of all the things he has put us through. I know that would be detrimental as well. I just don't know how to speak to him sometimes. I am VERY supportive of his recovery efforts, mentally, physically, and financially.
For those in recovery....how do you want to be treated by those who's lives you've impacted by your alcoholism or drug abuse?What is the most helpful thing a family member can say to you that would aid in your recovery?
Thank you.
