Well. I have been researching elder abuse and social services. Back in October, I had contacted their county's agency for advise, and as many know, unless the "victim" (My parents) agree that they are ready to move on, they can refuse that kind of help. I am going to call again, just to stay in the radar. One good thing, my sober sister sounds more on-board with what my sober brother and I are trying to do now, she has been reluctant to get involved.