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Lenina re the 19year old who will "keep an affair" quiet. really? It might be flattering to you but I can guarantee you it's just a notch in his bedpost. he's full of hormones and knows you're hurting and in need of a little "comforting". Do not go there!
Please give yourself time to heal, get some balance in your life. I hope you're getting some counseling for yourself. You deserve a lot better than you've had!
Love from Lenina
Yes, I'm married and have 5 kids...going there is NOT an issue--