Hi Jodie;
Yes, it is very sad and quite disgusting.lets do the numbers.
1. He cheated on you throughout the relationship
2. his kids must be completely confused and insecure,
3. he has permanent tatoo rings with another woman and a legal binding marriage contract.
4. He is sending you messages through your brother.
5. He is still the drunk/ coke binge person he was before
6. You are smarter and completely through with this, he totally disrespected you.
7. I feel sorry for the poor "wife"